You know I don't think that that is a reason. I love Matt's music and only came to this board to checkout the setlists. I see a few people who seem to feel the same about his music talking about songs they love and would love to hear. When I first saw Matt's posts I figured someone said something stupid so I went back and read the posts again and that is all it really was. A couple of people said they wished he played longer and Matt takes that as a bad thing.
People are excited about Matt and his music and his songs have a lot of meaning to a lot of people. The idea that people care enough about his music that they would spend time talking about possible setlists is a compliment. As you can tell by the user name I am a big Pearl Jam fan. You could not even count the posts or time spent on that board with people talking about possible setlist and dream setlists. The fact that they write great songs a change setlist everynight is what makes people so passionate about there shows.
I have seen Matt many times and always been very happy with the show but does it make me some kind of ass because I might come on a message board and say "I sure would love if Matt played Fearless, that song means a lot to me" knowing damn well he has not played it in 10 years? Like the one poster said I did not email Matt a hundred times asking for it.
I have done nothing but "pimp" Matt to everyone I can from Canada to Texas. I even went so far as emailing the music reviewer at ESPN, Paul Shirley, to get him to check out Matt's new album and maybe get him from free press. Paul actually wrote back that he enjoyed it. I would be really embarrassed to show any of the people I have been praising Matt too to see that post.
Now trust me I know that Matt does not owe me anything, if at all I would owe Matt for all his music has done for me. I think that I as a fan may deserve more than being pretty much told to F___ myself because I am a someone interested enough to talk to others about his music.