see, this is what i don't get.
if you're a man, and you like another man, why does one take on a more feminine role??? sure, it doesn't always happen, but when i've seen it, one is clearly more female than the other. is that being gay or is that people identifying with more than just the exterior?? in my life i've met a few gay men and other than the fact that they listenned to a lot of kylie minogue, they weren't flamboyant. where does the flamboyancy come from???
that just leads me to think that gay men like women... i mean, if you're gonna date a dude that dresses and acts like a chick, just date a fucking chick